To,

Those who overthink and over-love,

Relationships are rarely easy for anyone, isn’t it? They are always going to serve as big challenges for people who are looking to make love actually work. Even if it is Valentine’s week, growing out of love could be quite crazy. This article is for those who ‘Overthink’ and ‘Over Love’.  Not many of us know that overthinking could be dangerous at a certain level.

Speaking about love and over-caring, overthink could damage the tenderness of any relationship. It is no secret that overthinking has a tendency to ruin a lot of relationships. Unfortunately, it’s not something that most people understand and have the ability to control. One tends to take notice of the elusive mannerisms and gestures that most other people would just miss. On a constant note, one keeps on doing the nagging which could not be acceptable to others. The worst part, you add meaning to things that shouldn’t have any meaning at all. Your anxiety forces you to conjure various situations and scenarios in your head that play with nerves.

This is to inform those who embrace the person with an intention of not letting them go is dangerous. We want you to believe that everything will be just fine and believe us that your worries are not at all concrete. Try not to manufacture your own problems in your life. Seek comfort in the arms of those who love you and never give up.

Yours’,

Oh Kolkata team